How do YOU Honor Night Number Six?

By Rosanne Selfon, Camp Harlam Council Chair

Do you remember when you counted the days until Hanukkah arrived? I can still picture my Mom polishing the traditional brass lion menorah and buying new candles from our Temple Sisterhood. I was allowed to select just the perfect candles, sometimes in order by colors and sometimes just to be bright and happy. Mom’s latkes were the best ever; she made hundreds for the Religious School Chanukah party and was called “The Latke Lady”.

Hanukkah 5773 is just around the corner. Having 3 delicious grandchildren Madaline, 9, Lev,5, and Mila,4, makes the holiday so much fun. It also takes thoughtful planning and shopping. For several years, I have asked their moms, our daughters Lysa and Amanda, what the kids need or want. Though I asked the same questions this year, I added another.

Our Reform Movement has encouraged giving rather than receiving on the 6th night of Hanukkah. Last year, our grandkids selected toys for kids living in shelters. I was so proud of their understanding the importance of donating. But I also knew that each child would still open a present from David and me on that 6th night. This year, they are a year older and all of them now understand the concept of tzedakah. So my new question for their moms was – we’d like to give $18 to each child and have them choose a meaningful place to give their gift from us for night #6.

David and I want to talk with the kids about sharing what they have with others. Would they consider giving something other than toys or books this year? They are now aware of poverty, here and abroad, and of disasters like Hurricane Sandy. We also want to suggest something local…perhaps they might give their money to the Camp Harlam Scholarship Fund to help other kids get to camp?

I’d love to ask all grandparents and parents to consider this plan or something similar and grab this teachable moment. Thankfully, our family can fully celebrate the holiday with all its blessings and candles, latkes, community gatherings, and presents. But there are many who cannot access holiday joy. Take the time to explain gratitude for what we have and how to best gift someone else.

I’ll let you know how our new Hanukkah tradition unfolds. Hanukkah tells a wonderful story…a story to share with every generation. Now our clan has a new chapter to add to our family lore..how we give to others on Hanukkah. Very soon, I will get out that old brass lion menorah and get it polished…oh, the candles, I’ll get them from Temple Sisterhood and then Madaline, Lev and Mila can pick out the colors. Happy Hanukkah!

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