18 ½ years ago, Niv, my eldest son was born.
I remember my first Memorial Day with him. He was a few months old, and I was standing while the siren was sounding loudly, crying for friends and a cousin that were killed during their military service. At the same time, I was praying to G-d, with all my heart that this baby would not have to face any wars… At the end of this month, Niv will start his military service. Like many of his friends, he wants to be a fighter, to do his best to protect our beautiful and wounded country. It doesn’t take much imagination to know how his parents feel.
Two days ago, Einav, my daughter, (8 1/2), terrified, was trying to understand if the missiles could possibly get to Mevashert Ziyyon, where we live. All of a sudden, she said, “I wish Prime Minister Rabin was alive." I didn’t understand. She was born after he had been assassinated. How was it that she had mentioned his name in connection with her concern? Her answer was that if he were alive, he would make peace. He did in the past.
18 ½ years ago, Niv, my eldest son was born.
I remember my first Memorial Day with him. He was a few months old, and I was standing while the siren was sounding loudly, crying for friends and a cousin that were killed during their military service. At the same time, I was praying to G-d, with all my heart that this baby would not have to face any wars… At the end of this month, Niv will start his military service. Like many of his friends, he wants to be a fighter, to do his best to protect our beautiful and wounded country. It doesn’t take much imagination to know how my husband and I feel.
Two days ago, Einav, my daughter, (8 1/2), terrified, was trying to understand if the missiles could possibly get to Mevashert Ziyyon, where we live. All of a sudden, she said, “I wish Prime Minister Rabin was alive." I didn’t understand. She was born after he had been assassinated. How was it that she had mentioned his name in connection with her concern? Her answer was that if he were alive, he would make peace. He did in the past.
It shocked me the way she said it. Yes, from birth our kids are brought up with a deep desire for peace. Unfortunately, with all the desire and the acts we have taken, such as the withdrawals from the Gaza Strip and from Lebanon, it seems it’s never enough for for the fundamentalist Muslims. They want it all.
We will never give up on our dream to live here peacefully. We need to pray for a strong Israel on one hand, and that the moderate people on the other side of the border will win.
How is life in Israel now?
In the north, people are living in bomb shelters or in “protected/safe” areas in their own apartments. In Tel Aviv, if you didn’t know that a war was going on only 2 hours away, you would never guess!! Probably it is this that keeps us so normal and keeps us here!!! The Tel Aviv Promenade has been full with people; everything has been open and busy. So are things in Jerusalem. We are. This is what keeps us sane and able to cope with a never-ending war.
Confusing? I know!!! Our life is a story of dichotomies: the need to remember our sadness and the desire to live a normal happy life. You, who have visited here, know the beauty of this country
I continue to be in contact with our congregations in the north: Naharyia and Carmiel.
Both congregations have a high population of new immigrants from Argentina without any relatives here. Yesterday we found, for 4 families, hosting families in our Zichron Yakkov congregation. Today we provide a bus for families that asked us to help them to get out from Naharyia. Sad news is that the woman that was killed Thursday morning was the aunt of the young shaliach Tzibur and one of the soldiers killed on the boat is connected to the congregation in Carmiel.
From my conversations with the chairpersons from both congregations and the Rabbi, many people, mostly from Naharyia, left the city for the weekend. It will be challenging, if this continues much longer and people will have to find a solution (again most are new immigrants that will fear to lose their jobs). I offered that we would find, for them or for their children, hosting families or, alternatively, to host them at our summer camp.
I’m up-dating this brief after the attack upon Haifa, where 8 people were killed and many were injured: We have about 15 kids from Haifa participating in the summer “Havaya” camp. They were terrified to find out what was going on back home. Imagine what a delicate situation this is. Our amazing youth staff coped with this in a very sensible way. They are doing their best to calm the kids and provide them with a relaxing and enjoyable program. It’s a challenging task-believe me!!! Probably it is G-d’s Finger, that all this is happening while the kids are away from the “route of the missiles” Although, I should mention, that we decided, after much deliberation, to keep the location of the summer camp in Ashkelon, another attacked area. This time by the Hamas…
Last night I addressed our communities to ask them to open their homes and to host families from the north. The response has been heart-warming. This is Israel at her best hours. Every one opens his/her heart/hands/ pockets and homes.
We are busy in coordinating all the needs and to make sure that no one will remain without an answer or solutions to ones needs
We have gone through difficult times in the past and we shall overcome this time as well. I want to thank you personally for your concern and the sympathy you show. Please keep us in your prayers for peace of mind, soul and body.
I hope to update you soon with better news.
Thank you all for being a friend.
Gusti Yehoshua- Braverman is the associate director of Israeli Movement for Progressive Judaism