Strengthening Reform: 8. Is Reform Judaism Better?
July 29, 2008
Defining Reform
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By William Berkson In writing the last post in this series, on the JuBu movement, I looked at the beginning of a video of the Dalai Lama talking about the "four noble truths", the basis of Buddhism. He has an introduction in which he explains his attitude toward other religions. He says that other religions have important truths, and he is not just saying that to be polite. Other religions have truths that can help people to become good people, compassionate people, and that is the main thing. And, he says, he is not expecting the whole world to become Buddhist, which he thinks is unrealistic. Still, he says, "If you ask me, 'What is the best religion for me?' of course I will answer, 'Buddhism'."
In other words, though he is not pushing Buddhism on anybody, but if you ask him he has no hesitation saying that Buddhism is the best religion. And he will tell you his reasons for thinks so, at length.
Needless to say, traditional Christian or Muslims will say even more emphatically that theirs is best. And Orthodox Jews will have no problem with saying that theirs is the true religion. However, if you say to a group Reform Jews "our religion is superior," you will likely get from some a heated response along these lines: "Reform Judaism is all about tolerance and individual choice. Everyone is entitled to his or her own values and beliefs, and if you say that one is better than another you are just insulting other people and undermining tolerance. Just don't go there."
At any rate, I have had such discussions myself.
The view that the validity of values and beliefs is relative to a group or individual is known as Relativism. Contrary to the widespread belief among Americans, Relativism is actually an intolerant doctrine. The reason is that the tolerance of the Relativist only operates when there is no cooperative effort with those who have different values and beliefs. When you do want to or have to cooperate, then you have to work out disagreements. For the Relativist, there is nothing to talk about, and no way to rationally discuss disagreements, for there are no common standards.
The result is that in practice the only way to resolve disputes is by power plays or violence. Not exactly tolerant.
A better basis for tolerance is what I call a "humble universalism." That is the idea that there is a set of best values for humanity to live by, but we have to have some humility about what they are. That needs to be open to discussion. And when the "humble universalist" disagrees with somebody about values, there is a path to a reasoned discourse about solutions.
What values do we share in common? Where we differ are the consequences of living the different values we are disagreeing about? What social consequences look better us both of us? Are all of value consistent with one another in practice? Are mine? How do we resolve the contradictions? In other words, even where we differ on what values are best, if we are humble, fruitful discussion and better cooperation is possible.
I do think that the values of traditional Judaism and of the European Enlightenment are the best humanity has come up with. And Reform Judaism has tried to put these together. I am sure these ideas have flaws and other systems of belief have insights we can learn from. And I want to learn. But still, I make no apologies in saying these values are better; they will lead to a better way of life for humanity.
I would go further and say that if we are unwilling to say what is better about Judaism, then our Judaism will have nothing compelling to attract our and our children's loyalty and commitment. And the 'better' cannot simply be tolerance and inclusiveness. The Unitarians, the Quakers, the Buddhists and many secular group can do that.
Larry Kaufman has asked in several different posts how we 'brand' ourselves to be attractive. Well, here is my answer: we have to say what is better about us, and it has to be more than tolerance and choice.
For me, the personal and communal ethics of the Torah and Talmud and the peace and holiness they bring to daily life--to love and work--when they are put into practice are our distinctive treasure, and where we are better. And being part of a community committed to living and developing this personal and communal vision of how to life is very worthwhile. The current weakness of Reform Judaism is that is has not drawn upon this strongest current within our Jewish tradition, and has not made the most of it in modern life.
Where Reform has fallen short in using our ethical heritage, and how to incorporate this source of strength in Reform Judaism will the subject of my upcoming posts.
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I suppose that I should await further posts before commenting, but I have read and reread the statement, "the personal and communal ethics of the Torah and Talmud and the peace and holiness they bring to daily life--to love and work--when they are put into practice are our distinctive treasure, and where we are better," and I am puzzled. How do Jewish ethics differ from, say, Christian or other normative religious ethics, and how do Reform ethics differ from Conservative or Orthodox? In addition, ethics neither require nor, in themselves, constitute the totality of a religion.
I apologize if I have commented prematurely, and I look forward to clarification.