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    July 29, 2008
    Defining Reform (11 comments)

    By William Berkson
    In writing the last post in this series, on the JuBu movement, I looked at the beginning of a video of the Dalai Lama talking about the "four noble truths", the basis of Buddhism. He has an introduction in which he explains his attitude toward other religions. He says that other religions have important truths, and he is not just saying that to be polite. Other religions have truths that can help people to become good people, compassionate people, and that is the main thing. And, he says, he is not expecting the whole world to become Buddhist, which he thinks is unrealistic. Still, he says, "If you ask me, 'What is the best religion for me?' of course I will answer, 'Buddhism'."

    In other words, though he is not pushing Buddhism on anybody, but if you ask him he has no hesitation saying that Buddhism is the best religion. And he will tell you his reasons for thinks so, at length.

    Needless to say, traditional Christian or Muslims will say even more emphatically that theirs is best. And Orthodox Jews will have no problem with saying that theirs is the true religion.
    However, if you say to a group Reform Jews "our religion is superior," you will likely get from some a heated response along these lines: "Reform Judaism is all about tolerance and individual choice. Everyone is entitled to his or her own values and beliefs, and if you say that one is better than another you are just insulting other people and undermining tolerance. Just don't go there."

    At any rate, I have had such discussions myself.

    The view that the validity of values and beliefs is relative to a group or individual is known as Relativism. Contrary to the widespread belief among Americans, Relativism is actually an intolerant doctrine. The reason is that the tolerance of the Relativist only operates when there is no cooperative effort with those who have different values and beliefs. When you do want to or have to cooperate, then you have to work out disagreements. For the Relativist, there is nothing to talk about, and no way to rationally discuss disagreements, for there are no common standards.

    The result is that in practice the only way to resolve disputes is by power plays or violence. Not exactly tolerant.

    A better basis for tolerance is what I call a "humble universalism." That is the idea that there is a set of best values for humanity to live by, but we have to have some humility about what they are. That needs to be open to discussion. And when the "humble universalist" disagrees with somebody about values, there is a path to a reasoned discourse about solutions.

    What values do we share in common? Where we differ are the consequences of living the different values we are disagreeing about?  What social consequences look better us both of us? Are all of value consistent with one another in practice?  Are mine? How do we resolve the contradictions? In other words, even where we differ on what values are best, if we are humble, fruitful discussion and better cooperation is possible.

    I do think that the values of traditional Judaism and of the European Enlightenment are the best humanity has come up with. And Reform Judaism has tried to put these together. I am sure these ideas have flaws and other systems of belief have insights we can learn from. And I want to learn. But still, I make no apologies in saying these values are better; they will lead to a better way of life for humanity.

    I would go further and say that if we are unwilling to say what is better about Judaism, then our Judaism will have nothing compelling to attract our and our children's loyalty and commitment.  And the 'better' cannot simply be tolerance and inclusiveness. The Unitarians, the Quakers, the Buddhists and many secular group can do that.

    Larry Kaufman has asked in several different posts how we 'brand' ourselves to be attractive. Well, here is my answer: we have to say what is better about us, and it has to be more than tolerance and choice.

    For me, the personal and communal ethics of the Torah and Talmud and the peace and holiness they bring to daily life--to love and work--when they are put into practice are our distinctive treasure, and where we are better. And being part of a community committed to living and developing this personal and communal vision of how to life is very worthwhile.
    The current weakness of Reform Judaism is that is has not drawn upon this strongest current within our Jewish tradition, and has not made the most of it in modern life.

    Where Reform has fallen short in using our ethical heritage, and how to incorporate this source of strength in Reform Judaism will the subject of my upcoming posts.

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    Mark Tasch said:

    I suppose that I should await further posts before commenting, but I have read and reread the statement, "the personal and communal ethics of the Torah and Talmud and the peace and holiness they bring to daily life--to love and work--when they are put into practice are our distinctive treasure, and where we are better," and I am puzzled. How do Jewish ethics differ from, say, Christian or other normative religious ethics, and how do Reform ethics differ from Conservative or Orthodox? In addition, ethics neither require nor, in themselves, constitute the totality of a religion.

    I apologize if I have commented prematurely, and I look forward to clarification.

    William Berkson said:

    Thanks Mark, I appreciate your commenting now, as that will help me be relevant as I write the other posts.

    I know many others share your question, as I have heard it often. As I have worked in this area now for over ten years, for me it is a testament to the sad neglect of the distinctive treasure of Jewish ethics. It is no fault of yours, but it is a key failing of the Reform movement, as I will explain in my next post.

    The way in which Jewish tradition approaches ethics, particularly in the Talmud, is quite different from other traditions. The results are often similar to other ethics, but sometimes not. For example, there are many points of divergence from both traditional Christian ethics and from some of the strands of contemporary American ethics.

    In any case, the heart of Judaism is the wedding of ethics and spirituality. You can separate them, but I think both sides lose a lot when you do.

    It will take many posts to do justice to your questions, but I will be having a go at it, so keep me honest!

    William Berkson said:

    ps. You can read some of the best current work on personal ethics in Rabbi Joseph Tellushkin's books. You can get a taste of my own work at www.mentsh.com.

    M. B. said:

    Reform has over recent decades lost much of the pride in Reform Judaism and confidence that modern, rational ethical Judaism was the best religion. Many have come to accept the Orthodox characterization of Reform as "Judaism Lite" rather than the reformers belief that it was a more "pure Judaism."

    The leading figures of the Jewish Reformation included some of the world's most highly respected scholars of the Bible, the Talmud, and other rabbinical writings. Having experienced Orthodox Judaism, and having given each of the changes they were making to modernize Judaism great consideration, they were justly pleased with the new, improved, reformed Judaism. That pride and confidence was widespread for a long time as our ancestors worked to create the future form of Judaism for all Jews. More recently, I see some leaders who are more apologetic for Reform. Many Jewish leaders place a higher value on appeasing the Orthodox by adopting more and more of its trappings than in having a purer form of Judaism that withstands a reasoned analysis.

    It strikes me as bizarre that Reform chose Emanuel Gamoran, who studied at the JTS and did not believe in Reform Judaism, and did not believe in Judaism being taught as a religion, to be in charge of the educational programs for our Sunday Schools for 35 years. Is it any surprise that his books reflected his dislike of basic Reform ideals and sought to undermine them? Or the selection of Samuel Cohon, who disliked the rational approach and stress on ethics of Reform and wanted more Orthodox ritualism, as Professor of Theology at Hebrew Union College for 33 years. Is it any surprise that his rabbinical students were urged to move toward Orthodoxy rather than to continue to push for reform of Orthodoxy.

    William Berkson said:

    M.B., many thanks for your post, which makes me feel less lonely in my feeing that Reform has lost "its confidence", as you put it. I think this lack of confidence comes from a loss of a sense of direction. My feeling--like yours, evidently--is that Reform is suffering from a rather aimless neo-traditionalism. It there were a clearer sense of direction I think the movement would be more sure-footed about what in Jewish tradition to embrace fully, what to reject, and what to work on improving.

    I will try to lay out a clearer vision for the Reform future, but first I want to start with what has gone wrong recently, which I will take up in my next few posts.

    Mark Tasch said:

    My view may well be too jaundiced, but I see Reform Judaism of late as an amalgam of faux-Orthodox ritual practices, an embarrassed retreat from founding beliefs, and a self-righteous embrace of monotonous political correctness. The less distinctive Reform Judaism becomes from other Jewish denominations, the less reason it has to exist as a separate movement.

    Ruth B said:

    Mark Tasch writes: The less distinctive Reform Judaism becomes from the other Jewish denominations, the less reason it has to exist as a seperate movement.

    Well, certainly let's not hope or pray for anything resembling Jewish unity!

    I've seen this concern for loss of Reform distinctiveness before, and I have to confess I am perplexed by it. Just being Jewish is not in and of itself distinguishing enough? Sheesh, where I live, I'm happy enough to encounter another Jew of any stripe....

    It is true though that I do see certain portions of the "founding beliefs" worth retreating from. Terms like "neo-traditional" and "faux-orthodox" are being used without much definition here, and I am uncertain what they mean. Praying in Hebrew? Use of Talitot? Nusach that sounds more Mizrachi than European? Most of that seems aesthetic--and in my mind it's just as reasonable to adopt these styles as it is to look and sound like Lutherans.

    Or, are we refering to paying attention to kashrut or requiring converts to do tevillut? Now those things are really distinctive in North American culture.

    I look forward to Mr. Berkson's future posts, and I hope I can remain a just-Jewish member of my Reform-affiliated congregation.

    William Berkson said:

    Like Ruth B, I am uneasy about the split among Jewish denominations. The institutions of Judaism are denominationally split, and are important to the future and so realistically need to be considered.

    However in my post here my main concern is with laying out a philosophy that can inspire a strong future for Judaism, at least on the liberal side--the side concerned with incorporating into Judaism ideals from the Enlightenment.

    What I meant by "aimless neo-traditionalism" is that there is general praise of traditional rituals once not practiced in Reform, but not a critical assessment or guidelines on what should and should not be revived.

    To my mind, Reform dropped precious parts of the tradition that should be restored, but also got rid of things we are well rid of.

    Mark Tasch said:

    Obviously, distinctions such as "paying attention to kashrut" and "requiring converts to do tevillut" are among those that are religiously meaningless to us few remaining unrepentant admirers of the first Pittsburgh Platform. If Reform Judaism abandons its distinctions from the Conservative and Orthodox it abandons its reason for being. I respect Jewish Orthodoxy and am on good personal terms with Jews who are far more ritually observant than I choose to be (yes, some of my best friends are Orthodox), but any "Jewish unity" acceptable to the Orthodox leadership can be nothing but Jewish uniformity on the Orthodox model.

    Converting more and more of the Reform liturgy to a language which is not truly understood by most of the congregation is not merely an aesthetic matter. Even if more Reform congregants are learning to "read" Hebrew in the current environment (a contention which I have seen, but have not seen documented), I am skeptical that this ability to "read" is much more than an ability to transliterate without comprehension. Even if God did speak the cosmos into being in Hebrew, I am confident that He has managed to learn English since then.

    Larry Kaufman said:

    Whatever else we may think about some of the inanities that are stimulated by Dr. Berkson's insightful posts, we must certainly give first prize to the assertion that we do what we do to appease the Orthodox.

    The progenitors of the American Jewish Reformation, whatever the purity and rationality of their thought processes, were optimists who looked at their Reform Judaism as a universalitic religious solution so compelling that people of all faiths would eventually adopt it. (My house shall be a house of prayer for all peoples.) Lo and behold, they couldn't even get all Jews to adopt it.

    And, truth be told, they didn't want all Jews to adopt it, as demonstrated by the Reform impetus behind the creation of the Jewish Theological Seminary, as part of a strategy to keep the great unwashed out of their Temples in their New Jerusalems.

    Dr. Berkson places the heart of Judaism at the wedding of ethics and spirituality. To those I would add lifestyle. We define ourselves as Reform Jews by how we think, how we pray, and how we live. In all those realms, we may learn from our more halachic contemporaries and predecessors -- although Postville shows us that we have a lot to teach them about ethics, if only they would learn.

    I have always loved the story about the little boy who tells his mother he's drawing a picture of God. But Sammy, she says, no one knows what God looks like. Of course not, Sammy replies -- I'm not done yet.

    As Reform Jews, our job is to draw that picture of God -- and never to be done. Those who don't like our ever-evolving picture can establish their own museums, to display their completed visions. And if I look at their picture, and borrow a detail or two for my own, it will be to enrich my practice, not to appease them.

    William Berkson said:

    Mark, I have quite mixed feelings about Classical Reformer, as I will explain in my new post. I admire their clarity and passion, but think they were also somewhat narrow and dogmatic in their thinking, and also made some serious mistakes.

    Larry, you are right of course that how we think and live is the key issue. But to me that is first and applying the theology and ethics to our lives. Prayer is also important, but 'deeds are the main thing', as Avot has it.

    I think there is an overemphasis on the prayer dimension of Judaism because that is ostensibly what causes people to gather in synagogues--except that they don't in fact gather in very large percentages. I think that an emphasis on the other aspects is important to the future of Reform.

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