Strengthening Reform 10: Synagogues and Families
August 14, 2008
Community | Religious Life | The Future
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By William Berkson In the last post in this series, I argued that Classical Reform took a wrong turn in rejecting the Talmud, and that this mistake led to the neglect of a key strength of Jewish tradition: rabbinic ethics.
Fellow blogger Larry Kaufman argued, "I for one do not believe the health of our movement depends on our attitude towards the Talmud, but rather on our attitude towards our congregants."
There is no doubt that good management both by clergy and lay boards are keys to the health of congregations. But there is more: what does the congregation do with and for its members? How does the congregation meet the needs of its members, and potential members?
I think our congregations are missing out on much better serving the vital needs of Jewish families. And part of doing it better begins with a different perspective on what is important in Judaism. And that perspective is indeed connected to Talmud.
Ten years ago, when young American adults were asked about their top priorities in life, 83% of them said that "a close knit family" was a top priority. And that number had increased 15% over the previous ten years. Among Jews I think it is fair to say that it is even higher. By contrast according to the survey reported in The Jew Within only 26% of Jews rate Jewish religion as very important to their lives.
The irony is that if couples and families live according to Jewish values, and reinforce and sustain these by family and community Jewish ritual, they will in fact strongly promote that sense of a close knit family, and of sacred, loving relationships.
However, because of the lack of awareness of the details of Jewish values in Torah and Talmud, Jews do not usually connect 'guidance for good relationships' and 'Judaism'. Furthermore, there is an additional problem: the values in our sacred texts are stated within the context of more traditional societies, particularly with regard to the position of women. Thus if Reform Jews are to get the full benefits of living these values they need to:
- Be educated in the full range of values, both Torah and Talmud;
- Have the values updated and reformed to meet the needs of contemporary society more fully;
- Have the values incorporated into synagogue activities and ceremonies in ways that most help couples and families.
How Talmudic values can help revitalize Reform, and what it will take to do this will be the subject of my upcoming posts. -I had written that I would first do more critique of current Reform ideology, but this would probably better wait until my positive program is clearer.
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In teaching a course on the American Jewish short story in my congregation's adult ed program, I regularly discussed the Jewish values that were expressed in the story. One of my brighter students (who had become Jewish as an adult) regularly remonstrated that those were not Jewish values, they were American values.
That's another example of the Jewish impact on American life. But it ties directly to Dr. Berkson's point -- we need to do a better job at connecting accepted values to their roots in Jewish texts. (Sort of like Moliere's character who had been talking prose all his life but hadn't known it.)
Maybe this is just a semantic quibble, but it's not just updating or Reforming the values, but connecting them to the Tradition. To get with the program as Dr. Berkson suggests, we have to help our clientele recognize that the values they hold dear came from Jewish sources. They'll be comfortable with that -- but whether those Jewish sources are Torah or Talmud, most couldn't care less.