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Tribalism, Reform Judaism, Rites and Choices
September 4, 2008
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By dcc
Answer this question for me honestly: Do you, as an active Reform Jew, practice a Jewish tradition simply because that is what Jews have always done? Professor Carol Ochs writes in this week's d'var Torah that our portion teaches us that we can't "keep doing something just because we have always done it." I don't observe rituals simply because my parents do (or don't) observe them, but in all honesty my family's observance does inform my personal observance. And for that matter my community's observance plays a significant role in the formation of mine as well. But I can say with no doubt in my mind that I do not follow Jewish tradition simply because it is the way it has always been done.

So why do we continue to practice the brit mila?

In the most recent edition of Reform Judaism magazine Rabbi Mark Washofsky, HUC-JIR professor, Reform responsa scholar and general reference for all things Reform Judaism, wrote that Reform Jews continue this practice simple because that is what Jews do.

I think that the answer to these questions lies largely in the words "ancient tribal rite." For that's what berit milah is. That's why we do it, and, really, it's the only reason we do it.

Circumcision is a tribal rite in the same way that every Jewish ritual observance is a "tribal rite": a means by which the members of our "tribe" express their identity as a people, as a community covenanted with God, through the performance of a "rite" meaningful only within the context of that covenant. Putting it another way, if we seek to explain why we light Shabbat candles, or fast on Yom Kippur, or hold a Passover seder, it would be enough to say simply that "we do these things because we are Jews, because only Jews do them, and because we rehearse our uniquely Jewish identity by means of these uniquely Jewish acts."


I don't buy this at all. Earlier in the article, Washofsky notes that throughout Reform Jewish history boys had been circumcised, but not always by a mohel (or more recently a mohelet). Yet in the past few decades there has been a revival of the practice of the brit milah. So people don't just do it because it was always done, there is a choice that takes place in the mind of parents. They choose to identify with a past. They learn about their history and make the choice to connect to tradition.

There are also those who choose to identify with the past, learn about history and choose not go through with this practice. There has been a growing movement of "intactivists" (clever name I know) are gaining ground, even in some segments of the Jewish community. These folks tend to be young, upwardly-mobile, urban, professional types (there is some clever name for them too) who may or may not be connected the organized Jewish community.

Regardless of this movement or the so-called revival, the same issue is at its center: parents making a choice for their children.

Recently, Rabbi Danny Rich, leader of the Britain's Liberal Judaism, was quoted saying that he holds ethical requirements of Judaism over ritual practice; the article in which he is quoted focused on circumcision. DK, the Kvetcher, has long been harping on this particular issue and it seems that he believes that the brit milah will be gone from all streams of liberal Judaism with in a few generations. He uses Rabbi Rich's statement as proof. I disagree.

As the Reform Movement in North America continues to explore our past as a way to inform our present and build our future, the brit milah revival will continue and so too will the advancement of the intactivists. But the act of circumcision will not disappear from the liberal Jewish world. As long as choice remains a major aspect of liberal thinking and Reform Jewish ideology, people will continue to make the choice to engage with this tradition.

I am curious to hear the reaction of others out there in the Jewish, Reform Jewish and Intactivist worlds. Let me know.

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David A.M. Wilensky said:

Here's my response: "In Response"

William Berkson said:

I have just read Rabbi Washofsky's article, and I am not entirely clear on a key point, which is the meaning he gives to 'covenant' in the article.

He says that "the performance of a 'rite' meaningful only within the context of the covenant" of the people with God.

Now God says to Abraham in the Torah that he is singling out Abraham and making a covenant with him because he will "charge his sons and his household after him: that they shall keep the way of the Lord and to so what is right and just (tzedakah umishpat)"(Gen 18:19).

If we connect the brit milah to the covenant with a holy purpose, and an ethical one, then I would agree with the article.

But Washofsky also writes: "I think that the answer to these questions lies largely in the words “ancient tribal rite.” For that’s what berit milah is. That’s why we do it, and, really, it’s the only reason we do it... 'We do these things because we are Jews, because only Jews do them, and because we rehearse our uniquely Jewish identity by means of these uniquely Jewish acts.' Every tribe in the world behaves in this way, proclaiming its sense of community through the performance of rituals that allow the tribe to tell its story and to recount its sense of self."

One way of reading this is that the point of Brit Milah is simply tribal identity like that of any other tribe.

That reading is what I would disagree with, but I don't know whether it is intended.

To me just pushing markers of identity is what I call the 'identity racket', and is a recipe for failure for diaspora Judaism. The idea seems to be, well, what Jews do differently is light shabbat candles and pray in Hebrew, so we should focus on getting them to do that. This is a disastrously hollow policy because it doesn't ever address why this tribe is something worth affiliating with.

The brit milah is a rather arbitrary symbol, so far as we know, yes. But this indelible, irrevocable, marker only grains power when it is a symbol of identification with a people devoted to life of justice, kindness, and holiness. As mere tribalism it's going to be a failure, because in the diaspora whether to be part of the tribe has become to a great extent our free choice.

Larry Kaufman said:

I haven't checked out the Washofsky, but I did read the dvar Torah by Professor Ochs. It seems to typify the midrashic practice of developing a thesis and then going back to find a proof-text, rather than starting with the text and providing an interpretation. The text does not say Don't do what you've always done -- it says Don't go back to the bad thing you managed to shake.

Donald suggests that some things are done because Jews have always done them, some things because of family influence, some because of community influence.

But he then says he can say with no doubt in his mind that he does not follow Jewish tradition simply because it is the way it has always been done.

I would respond to that that none of us does -- we do what we do because it has some kind of meaning to us. That meaning may be sentimental, or tribal, or atavistic -- and most of us don't really think about why we do what we do, other than at some level it makes us feel good.

We more and more see in the Orthodox community what somebody in Shma (I think it may have been Rabbi Roland Gittelsohn z"l) once called the chumra (stringency) of the month -- a rabbinic thrust to constantly find new nuances of difficulty. (Building a fence around the fence around the Torah.) See how good it makes us feel to find ways to be stricter with ourselves than we thought we had to be yesterday.

In pre-Dilbert days, we used to say, There's no reason for it, it's just company policy. Nu?

Joseph said:

The brit milah is a reminder of the contract between Jews and G-d. Nuff said.

dcc said:

Joseph-

your point kinda flies in the face of the entire point of this article. So therefore that isn't "nuff said."

Joseph said:

dcc-

The article kinda flies in the face of the entire point of brit mila.

I'll leave aside the theological question of how binding the commandments are. Instead, I will place the brit mila in historical context. Until the Romans exhiled Jews from Israel, the Sanhedrin was a major branch of the government. The Torah was their constitution. After the expulsion of the Jews, the Rabbis contunued to function as a government in exhile. Viewed in this context, the Torah is a contract that keeps Jews together much the same way the US constitution unites American.

The brit mila is the religious equivalent of a birth certificate. Parents who debate over giving a brit mila are like US citizens abroad who give birth and decide whether or not to apply for a birth certificate at the local US embassy. It signifies ties to a people, not an ethnicity. A people has laws, legal institutions, and methods for immigration/conversion, as opposed to an ethnicity which implies biological, linguistic, and cultural ties. When the brit mila symbolizes a contract, it is more in tune to the American ideal of joining individuals through agreements and common policies as opposed to common descent. I think this interpretation of the ceremony is also more in tune with Reform ideals.

dcc Author Profile Page said:

Joseph- Like all ritual aspects of Reform Judaism, the brit mila must be done to elevate the spiritual understanding of a person. Granted, tradition does dictate different reasons behind different traditions. But your "historical context" could be applied to any ritual that Reform Jews do or don't observe. Perhaps we may take part in this ritual because it does connect us to the past and that is what elevates our spiritual understanding. However if this doesn't saying "we always did it," isn't going to cut it. (sorry couldn't resist)

Larry Kaufman said:

I have now caught up with Rabbi Washofshky's article on why Reform never eschewed circumcision, although it for decades tended to observe it as a medical procedure rather than ss a ritual act.

What the article fails to convey is any of the argument that undoubtedly took place among the Reform rabbinate over the Classical Century. We got today's perspective on the "why," but no contemporary perspectives on what happened or didn't happen during the era of discarding rituals that didn't "elevate."

The magazine article falls into a trap that is all too common -- translating brit milah as ritual circumcision. When we distinguish between milah (circumcision) and brit milah, it's important to note that brit does not mean "ritual," is means "covenantal."

Can it be that the Reformers, even when they were caught up in their reductionary zeal recognized that yesh g'vul, there is a limit?

David A.M. Wilensky said:

@ dcc: You said, "Like all ritual aspects of Reform Judaism, the brit mila must be done to elevate the spiritual understanding of a person."

I'd really like to disagree with that. I'm gonna have to think about why. Just in principle, for now, though.

DK said:

Joseph wrote,

The brit mila is the religious equivalent of a birth certificate. Parents who debate over giving a brit mila are like US citizens abroad who give birth and decide whether or not to apply for a birth certificate at the local US embassy.

So...you are saying...women are not first class citizens then, correct?

Ronald Goldman, Ph.D. said:

Most Jews are not religious. They circumcise because of cultural pressure, conformity, and lack of awareness of the harm of circumcision.

In addition, circumcision is done for unconscious reasons as well as expressed reasons. The unconscious reasons are avoided because they are very painful to acknowledge. As Erickson said, "The best minds have often been least aware of themselves." We know from psychological research that there is a compulsion to repeat trauma. In this case, there is a compulsion to repeat the trauma of circumcision.

Breaking the cycle of repeating trauma is extremely difficult. The usual response is simply to deny that there is any harm and continue repeating the trauma. If we are to take our tradition of questioning seriously and consistently, then we must question a practice that causes so much unexpressed pain, doubt, and emotional, intellectual, and ethical conflicts.

It is mainly (circumcised) men who defend circumcision. We MUST listen to what the women feel. Their maternal instincts deserve to be respected and trusted.

Actually, the fundamental issue is the right of the child to make his own decision because it is his body. I have heard from many (some Jewish)circumcised men who regret being circumcised and wish they had been able to make their own choice. For more information see http://www.jewishcircumcision.org and http://www.circumcision.org.

Ruth B said:

then we must question a practice that causes so much unexpressed pain, doubt, and emotional, intellectual, and ethical conflicts

Really? Would you please link some articles citing this to confirm? I had no idea! All of these men I know who I thought were happy and well-adjusted, are actually suffering from the repressed trauma of infant circumcision. Who knew?

My own husband has so much repressed the memory of this trauma, that when I showed him the above quote out of context, he thought we were talking about Hebrew school! It's going to take years of therapy.....


William Berkson said:

I really doubt that circumcision to an eight day old boy is a trauma that has any lasting mental impact.

Also the health arguments have recently changed with the discovery that circumcision helps reduce the spread of AIDS, as of some other sexually transmitted diseases, I believe.

It is a good point that this is a decision made by the parents for the child, not by the child. That does raise a moral question, but it is a powerful, indelible message that the parents want the child to be part of the covenant. In truth, parents make many decisions for their children, and probably indelible, though not so obviously so.

Of course, because circumcision is widespread among non-Jews, the message is a bit less clear.

David A.M. Wilensky said:

People do repeat trauma. People who were abused as a child are most likely to abuse their own children. Yet, somehow I feel that the incredible prevalence of this custom amongst Jews across history cannot be simply explained away with your repeated trauma line.

Joseph said:

Dk,

No, I wouldn't say that. The naming ceremony is the religious equivalent of a birth certificate for girls. Although, some feminist Jews advocated female circumcism in the name of gender equality.

Joseph said:

Delaying circumcism until the child is an adult and old enough to consent would be less ideal from a biolgical perspective. At 8 days, it is much easier for neurons that process information from the forskin to switch to processing information from nearby areas. By age 20, switching neurons to new tasks is much more difficult. The trade off is simlar to the decision parents of some deaf children face over cochlear implants.

DK said:

No, I wouldn't say that. The naming ceremony is the religious equivalent of a birth certificate for girls.

Great! Let's do that for the boys, without the cutting. Deal.

M. B. said:

We may not need to worry about this for awhile. Being different is something boys can get picked on by other boys. Circumcision is common today for all kinds of Americans, especially middle class ones, and has been for some time. That makes it much easier for Jews.

I haven't known of anyone who claimed to have felt traumatized, or victimized, or hurt in any way by circumcision as an infant. For most everyone, its like having a puppy's tail bobbed. Not a big deal.

For adult men, well, that sends shivers down your spine just to think about it. That takes a certain amount of conviction.

Dave Abbey said:

I agree with those who question our continuation of the practice of circumcision. It's an example of one of our religion's contradictions. Is not our body created by God? Yet we choose to cut a bit of it (nay I say mutilate) after only 8 days of life.

I think of course if we are going to do it, it's better at 8 days than at adulthood. But clearly unless there is a medical/public health reason to do so, we should drop the practice of cutting.

We can still hold a 'covenant of life' ceremony for babies of both genders.

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