Strengthening Reform 19: Reasons for the Ethical Mitzvot
November 24, 2008
Defining Reform
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by William Berkson As I have written earlier, Reform is now in a "great mitzvah muddle," in which a number of leaders are not clear about the reasons for the mitzvot, and have written of each person deciding what is a mitzvah. This is an inclusive approach, which is fine, but alas directionless.
What is missing here is a clearer idea of what is traditionally called ta'amei hamitzvot, the reasons for the mitzvot. In traditional Judaism, these reasons are secondary, because the sacred text is the final authority for a mitzvah, even if its interpretation is open to wide interpretation. In liberal Judaism, however, the text is only one source of our decisions about what God wants of us, so the other reasons become more important.
In the case of the ethical mitzvot, we first of all have a grounding of the 'commandedness' of ethics in human nature, in the form of inborn compassion and conscience. Furthermore, ethical action promotes social cooperation, and so human survival. That we are born with this nature is a strong indication that our God is sending us a message to behave ethically. However, how to realize this is very complicated, as there are conflicting demands from different people and from society, and from our own needs for self-protection. The world has many different wisdom traditions for resolving these conflicts. And while there is a great deal in common amongst them, there are also divergences. How do we resolve the conflicts, and how do we adapt past ideas to present day society, and improve them if necessary?
My take on this is that general commandment to be ethical is universal, but that Judaism has the strongest tradition for interpreting and applying the ethical imperative. And nonetheless Jewish ethics also need considerable development and change to apply them well to modern times.
First on the strength of Jewish ethics. Western academic has from the time of Plato been hung up on trying to reduce ethics to a single imperative, such as: the greatest happiness of the greatest number (Utilitarianism) or "act as if your action could become a universal law" (Kant). But the reality is that there are multiple 'goods' and not everything can be reduced to one thing. The Nobel Prize winning economist Kenneth Arrow in his famous 'Arrow's Theorem' showed that with multiple good things that come into conflict, there is no one defined 'best' way to resolve the conflicts. An example noted in the Talmud is that strict justice and peace at times come into conflict with one another. But there are many other examples, as well as issues of the lesser of evils.
The approach of Jewish ethics is not to try to reduce everything to one principle, but to take multiple values such as kindness, justice, and peace, and try to see what social principles and rules of action will lead to the best life for the family and the community. The development over many centuries of this kind of practical applied ethics has given Judaism what I think is the strongest and richest ethical tradition in the world.
However, in spite of its being truly a treasure, aspects of Jewish ethics are seriously dated, and need to be developed, applied, and in some cases changed for today's world. What happened is that, unfortunately, issues of personal ethics have been largely ignored, while the world has changed, and people instead have turned for personal guidance primarily to psychology. While psychologists have achieved many valuable insights, they have been allergic to looking at ethical issues. And these ethical values remain key to good relationships, as the Jewish sages such as Maimonides have recognized.
Marriage, the family, and work have all changed in fundamental ways in modern times. For example, marriage has become self-chosen rather than arranged, and the ideal has become 'companionate', or egalitarian, instead of patriarchal. This means that instead of the husband deciding, with the wife putting indirect pressure, the husband and wife expect to have an equal say in decisions affecting their marriage and their children. Hence, husband and wife have to engage in difficult discussions where they differ over emotionally charged issues in which both have a stake. And marital communication and problem-solving can easily break down in such situations.
How well a wife and husband are able to deal with such issues is critical to the strength of the marriage, but traditional Jewish values, in the patriarchal context, had little to say about these issues. And we have such backward ideas as "Don't talk a lot with the wife." (Avot 1:5) But traditional values such as compassion (rachamim), kindness (chesed) and fairness (tzedek) remain central to sustaining a good relationship.
What is needed in my view is that we need to explicitly consider what modern science, in the form of psychology and sociology, have learned. And we need to synthesize this with classic Jewish values, and apply the synthesis in the home and the synagogue.
In other words, the reasons for the ethical mitzvot need to include modern scientific ones as well as more traditional ones. This idea of including science is a founding tenet of Reform, but it has not been systematically applied to the area where Judaism is in fact traditionally strongest, namely relationships in the family and community.
How to synthesize psychology and Jewish values and apply the synthesis today in the home and synagogue I will consider in upcoming posts in this series
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Thanksgiving dinner is at our house this year, so this morning I pulled out the disintegrating folder in which I keep recipes so I could write up a shopping list. A piece of standard printer paper fell out, with the following printed on it:
It is my contention that the "ritual laws"--kashrut, tefillin, Shabbat, holidays, etc.--exist to create and preserve a group identity in which the commitment to the "ethical" commandments--the tikkun olam part--can best be reinforced and promoted.
If one believes, as I do, that Jews have a unique spiritual calling in this world, that we are to be "a kingdom of priests," that we are to declare the unity of the Divine Name through our actions, then that group identity is essential.
The ritual mitzvot are a concrete expression of that identity. A person's nature is exhibited in what he or she does. By carrying out certain ritual actions--which necessarily include distinguishing oneself from other groups of people--one reinforces one's identity as a Jew. If you remove that concrete, ritual expression of identity you are left only with a commitment to a code of ethics which is laudable, but indistinguishable from other liberal programs of social action.
If we believe that "Jewishness" has any inherent value or meaning (and if we did not, why would we bother calling ourselves "Jews") then the ritual aspect must be preserved. But it is also my contention that the ethical mitzvot are the core of the Revelation, its heart and soul. The ritual mitzvot are the body. The ethical mitzvot are more important, but the ritual mitzvot--however mysterious they may appear to us post-moderns--are necessary for achieving them. Likewise, we cannot let the ritual mitzvot eclipse the ethical commandments as is too much the case on the other end of the spectrum.
I am fully convinced that the Torah, Written and Oral, is from God and originated at Sinai. Sinai was not the end but the beginning, and Torah is not a thing but a process.
I'm very sorry to say that I don't remember exactly when I printed that or from where, so I am unable to give proper credit to the author. I haven't the foggiest how it ended up with my recipes for cranberry sauce and scalloped corn, but perhaps it is an appropriate place after all: as we daily create our Judaism, we always have to be cognizant of including the right proportions of ethical and ritual, adjusting as needed for the season, and for the palate of the people who share daily dish of life.
I appreciate Mr. Berkson's efforts in trying to update and improve this recipe.