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    Reclaiming our profound identity on Shabbat
    November 21, 2008
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    by Dr. Carol Ochs, Adjunct Professor of Jewish Religious Thought
    Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion - New York

    Excerpted from Dr. Ochs' keynote address at the Union's Shabbat Symposium, January 2007

    Why keep the Sabbath? Because it is commanded? That really doesn't sit well with Reform Jews. Because it is traditional? Well, then, are we talking about a museum or a living faith? Because it gives us community? That's good, but not good enough.

    I think Shabbat is about our relationship to God. We don't know who we are, we don't know who God is, and we are invited to be still and know that I am God. One of the things that has kept the Jewish people from falling into the bitterness of other groups that have been exiled or enslaved or treated badly over 2,000 years is that once a week they say, "I am not what they are calling me. I am a person in relationship to God." They bathe themselves in this identity and it inoculates them against less glorious names.

    We still don't know who we are. We are still enslaved. We think we are our job, so that when we are unemployed, we want to disappear. We think we are the tasks we have to perform for other people. Once a week, we are given a chance to take on, whole, a different identity.

    I used to teach comparative religion at Simmons College in Boston, which is a militantly secular school. They said if the calendar worked that way they would be open on Christmas. And the students loved Comparative Religion, except when they got to their own faith. Then they didn't want to hear anything because they had learned their faith as a child and it was a childish faith. With each faith that we studied, I made them keep a practice. So that when we studied Hinduism we learned how to meditate. So when we got to Judaism I said, "I want you to keep Shabbat." And the Jewish students started screaming and the others said, "What does that mean?" I said, "For twenty-five hours, you belong to yourself and God. You don't do your homework anyway, but at least you won't feel guilty about it."

    They came in the following Monday and the non-Jewish students could not get over the experience, that they could actually choose to spend the time with themselves or with those people who valued them. They could take a walk, they could look at the world and not feel a sense of obligation to other people. Now that is not the whole of Shabbat. We want to talk about community, too. But the idea that we have a profound identity that we have to reclaim once a week I think is terribly important.

    Dr. Carol Ochs
    Adjunct Professor of Jewish Religious Thought
    Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion - New York

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    William Berkson said:

    "The Jewish students started screaming."

    Your story about your students really rings true to me. So many Jews have a false sense of familiarity with Jewish piety, and assume that everything alien must somehow be deeper and more spiritual.

    What is the best way for liberal Jewish to reclaim the Sabbath day? I do think Rabbi Yoffie was right in focusing on that as a key challenge.

    I think the key thing is that we are not doing things for the sake of other days or other goals, but for their own sake on Shabbat. But what activities, and particularly activities we can do communally, I don't think is a solved problem. They need to be activities that are spiritually meaningful, and for most, as Steven Cohen has documented, that is not the prayer service.

    M. B. said:

    The Sabbath is one of God's greatest gifts to mankind. He not only allows us to have a day off each week, He insists on it! So many folks feel guilty if they just take time off, even if they can well afford it. The Ten Commandments shifts the balance for one day.

    The Reform Sabbath is especially nice in its flexibility.
    thank Heavens it doesn't require all day in services to keep the Sabbath holy. We can spend a few moments lighting Sabbath candles and saying prayers over the food and wine before dinner with the family. We can go to Bible class or services if the spirit moves us, or read on our own. As long as we are not working, we can do almost anything we enjoy. Anything we find restful. Tennis, golf, hiking, skiing, fishing, camping, walking the dog, shopping, riding, gardening, playing with the kids, watching TV or curling up with a good book by the fire.

    I think a comparison with sleep is worthwhile. We spend roughly 1/3 of our lives asleep, which some type A persons lament as a waste. I was intrigued by a recent study on sleep which highlighted its benefits and the vital role it plays. Mention was made that being totally deprived of sleep can kill people quicker than having no food. Sleep is important to effective learning, allowing the mind to process and retain information we receive while awake. It, especially dreaming, is vital to mental health. Just as sleep is vital, so is the rest on the Sabbath. It leaves us refreshed and better able to handle whatever life throws at us the rest of the week. And it is a joy in itself to have a God given day of rest.

    Larry Kaufman said:

    Dr. Ochs says we can't sell Shabbat to Reform Jews by pushing commandedness, and suggests instead getting into relationship with God.

    Dr. Berkson, citing Dr. Cohen, removes the prayer service from consideration, but says we need something with spiritual meaning.

    We are not going to reclaim Shabbat through abstractions. We will only bring people to Shabbat by giving them something specific to do, and that something specific should be something Jewish. Rabbi Kushner reminds us http://urj.org/worship/letuslearn/s17tentpeg/ that the primary Jewish acts are prayer, study, and good deeds. Meanwhile the specific Shabbat command involves the two sides of the same coin (if I may use a coin metaphor in a Shabbat context) -- don't work/rest.

    Standing on a mountain-top cogitating on a relationship with God may have spiritual meaning -- but I don't see it as Shabbat until it is invested with specifically Jewish content.

    Rabbi Yoffie showed that he understands this -- his San Diego Shabbat challenge was brought to life by the deck of cards with something specifically Shabbosdik to do -- a card/an action for every Shabbat of the year.

    No, many nominally Reform Jews won't buy commandedness, nor prayer services -- because what they are not buying is Shabbat. Let's enrich Shabbat for those who are already in the market for it.

    William Berkson said:

    Larry, I didn't mean to remove the prayer service from consideration, nor do I think Steven Cohen does. He just documents the fact--to me remarkable--that most Jews believe in God and have spiritual experiences, but don't ususally have them in Jewish worship services.

    The focus has often been on making the worship service more meaningful. I think that is very desirable, but personally I think that a more fundamental solution is called for: most often the Shabbat morning prayer service should be the frame for activities, rather than the whole picture.

    Another important fact for me is that most people do find other celebrations spiritually meaningful and moving--especially life cycle celebrations (b'nai mitzvah, weddings, funerals), but also Passover, Chanukkah, the High Holy days.

    So I am thinking that, following the motto of 'Torah, avodah (worship) and gemilut chassadim (kind deeds)', that Torah study--very broadly understood--and good works, again broadly understood, should be made more central, and the prayer service on Saturday mornings often a framework for this.

    I know that for me Torah study on Saturday mornings, with a loyal group of 40 interested and interesting adults, and usually three rabbis is a spiritual highlight for me. And all of us are there because we want to be, not out of a sense of duty or guilt.

    JanetheWriter said:

    I read Dr. Ochs' post shortly before I left the office on Friday. It was just the push I needed to go home and make Shabbat.

    When I lit the candles, the glow in the darkened kitchen was magical and I was oh-so thankful, even if just for the evening, to belong only to myself and to God.

    Joey said:

    Dr. Ochs assumes that you can have a relationship with God but not want to accept commandments.

    How can the finite have a relationship with the infinite? the answer is, he cannot! He can only have a relationship with the God he created in his own mind. "creating God in our image" rather then the other way around.

    The finite can only connect with the infinite if the infinite reaches out to the finite, and it will be on the terms of the infinite. This means following commandments... if Reform Jews are afraid of the word commandments (it is only because their leaders have taught them to hate the concept, but they can) use the term "good ideas". Essentially, all happily observant Jews think of them as such and do not have negative connotations to the "613 problems". They think of them as 613 opportunities.

    If one is to engage in ANY relationship, they would yield to the other partner and do somethings on their terms (i.e. purchase a gift that the partner likes or watch a show with them that only the other partner enjoys) it is ridiculous to think that one can have a one way relationship. Therefore, it is absurd to talk about a shabbat as a time for a relationship with G-d while objecting strongly to his desires.

    M. B. also assumes that everyone that keeps shabbat prays all day. It is a gross mistake and sheer ignorance. Last but not least, Jewish actions to not amount only to prayer and spiritual acts, but rather to eating and drinking and sleeping as well, when they are done for the sake of Heaven.

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