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    Galilee Diary: Spring countdown
    April 21, 2009
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    by Marc Rosenstein
    (Originally published in Galilee Diary and Ten Minutes of Torah)

    tmt-bug.jpgAnd from the day on which you bring the omer offering - the day after the sabbath - you shall count off seven weeks. They must be complete: you must count until the day after the seventh week - fifty days; then you shall bring an offering of new grain to the Lord. -Leviticus 23:15-16

    As principal of a Jewish school in the US, I always felt that once we hit Tu Beshvat, the year is over - there is no time or energy left to do anything except cope with the succession of holidays, get ready for the end of the year, and work on the plans, hiring, etc. for next year. Any kind of continuity, of concentration, of orderly instruction is pretty much shattered by one special day after another, with their associated preparations. And if that is true in the microcosm of the Jewish school in the Diaspora, imagine what goes on in the Jewish state!

    Purim, for example, eats up a full week - first there's getting ready, and then the school party has to be two days before Purim, for there is no school on Purim, and the day before Purim is the Fast of Esther, when it's considered inappropriate to party; and then the day after is Shushan Purim, another day off. Similarly, Pesach vacation starts a week before Pesach, which means that school sedarim and other festivities have to be held before the dismissal, cutting into the little time after Purim that was not already devoted to preparing for Pesach. For Pesach (and the weeks before) especially, not only schools, but the whole country goes into a kind of shutdown mode - normal obligations are set aside for cleaning, shopping, and travel. Whatever prophet said "dust is not chametz" has no following in the holy land; for example, the county street-sweeper makes its annual visit to our parking lot the week before Pesach.

    But that's only the warm-up. Traditionally, the period from the second day of Pesach until Shavuot, the "counting of the Omer," was treated as a period of mourning. No one knows why - the Talmud refers to a plague that killed thousands during the Roman period - some see in that a cryptic reference to events of the disastrous Bar Kochba revolt. Others suggest that the period during which the wheat is ripening is fraught with danger - one poorly timed hailstorm can destroy a year's food supply; hence, we superstitiously avoid acting too happy until the harvest is in. If anything, the seven weeks of counting should be a calm and productive time. But whether by plan or by coincidence, we've inserted modern historical commemorations into this period, leaving no week untouched. The week after Pesach there's Yom Hashoah; the week after that there's Yom Hazikaron and Yom Ha'atzma'ut - and since the latter comes this year on a Wednesday, and many people are off on Fridays anyway, that Thursday will be taken as a vacation day by thousands. Then a normal week, followed by the week in which Lag B'omer falls. Not really a holiday, with unknown origins, this 33rd day of the counting of the Omer, on which traditionally the mourning customs of the period are temporarily lifted, is thus a day of many weddings, and has become a kind of children's fire festival - bonfires, often huge, are de rigueur that night and woe to any construction site without a security guard. A year's worth of carbon credits up in smoke. The following week is Jerusalem Day - and the week after that Shavuot. By then of course we're approaching June, so schools are heavily into exams, rehearsals for graduation performances, etc.

    There's something wonderful about this intense rush of religious and historical symbols, a period in which the various dimensions of Jewish identity saturate the public space - and consciousness - with symbols and songs and tastes and smells. Unless, of course, you're trying to get something done.

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    M. B. said:

    Marc: With so many of the Israelis being non-Jewish now, how do they fit into these observances in Israeli schools? Where we are a minority in the U.S., great care is generally taken to avoid having Jewish students feel left out around Christmas. Teachers frequently ask Jewish kids to explain Hanuka, make Hanuka decorations, bring special foods, and even include Hanuka songs in the school pageants. What do they do in Israel? Are their Christian and Islamic songs and decorations in the schools? How welcome and included do the Christian and Islamic kids feel in a country run by Jews? And what are the holidays like for the large number of atheist students of Jewish descent? That is unlike anything in the U.S. where atheists are a tiny minority. Do their parents mind the religious celebrations and try to keep their kids from participating, or do they just go along with the crowd?

    Larry Kaufman said:

    The impact of the calendar varies with circumstances. At a meetng yesterday (April 20th) of a Jewish organization whose constituency is adults, we discussed when to hold a contemplated event -- and there was consensus that if we couldn't hold it by mid-June, we'd be looking at November.

    After all, nobody goes to meetings in the summer, and then comes Labor Day, and the Yamim Noraim (High Holydays) and the Chagim (festivals of Sukkot and Simchat Torah). And of course if you miss November, you're again dead in the water, because by the tenth of December, we are all, you should pardon the expression, in Christmas mode, and then everyone is in Palm Springs or in Boca Raton. (The people who are in Aspen or in Vail don't come to meetings anyway.)

    So basically our organizational windows are Simchat Torah until Thangsgiving, and from the eighth day of the Omer until maybe ten days after -- minus the interruptions mentioned in the post.

    It's a wonder that anything ever happens!

    marc rosenstein said:

    Remember that almost all Moslem and Christians in Israel attend separate schools - there are very small numbers of them in the Jewish schools, and the assumption has always been that if they chose to attend Jewish schools, they have to accept the whole package of Jewish culture. However, as I have written previously, I have met teachers who are troubled by trying to figure out how to relate to this small minority when Jewish holidays and texts are studied. This is an unfinished project.

    Also, I'm not sure just how many Israelis would define themselves as "atheist" and even if they do, the vast majority see the Jewish holidays as part of their culture and would expect them to be celebrated and taught in the schools. The main achievement of the Zionist education system was to "secularize" Jewish culture, so that you can happily celebrate the Jewish holidays as expressions of your national culture, without having to accept any particular theology.

    Cathy said:

    Hi Marc --

    You know, when I read this column, I started to laugh out loud. First, let me give you a little background. I'm the chair of our Religious Practices & Music Committee at a Temple in South Florida. Our Committee deals almost exclusively with the Jewish calendar and our holiday celebrations.

    As a result, I can see just where you're coming from! One of the things I have to be on a first name basis with is our calendar ...and it's been a real learning experience.

    In the process, though, I've learned something that's equally interesting. Our pesky calendar! It never stops, does it? It's crazy, intrusive, and downright frustrating at times. But that's the point. You have to stop, take notice of it, and reconsider. What? Just about everything.

    Our calendar is a lesson in discipline and self control. It can teach our kids many things. Thanks for the great article, and keep up the good work!

    Cathy Shapiro
    Coral Springs, Florida

    Jerry Tatar said:

    Marc,

    I have always enjoyed your writings - you may remember our exchange a few years ago. In fact, we use your beautiful poem about Pesach to set a mood for our Seder.

    However, in this instance, I believe that what you wrote serves to depict what is wrong with Jewish education. If our secular schools based their entire year on doing nothing but studying holidays (i.e., Labor Day, Columbus Day, etc.), parents would be in an uproar. I was amazed one year when our synagogue religious school had a major assembly to show how the second or third graders had learned their Alef Bet by singing a song. I remarked that, if a public school principal had an assembly to have second grade students sing the "ABC" song, the parents would probably give him/her 15 minutes to clean out his/her desk.

    Obviously, there is so much more to learn about Judaism than the holidays. In addition to history, there are many values and concepts that could give students strength for daily life rather than just setting them up to have little depth of knowledge but to celebrate Purim, Pesach and little else.

    We are not giving our children enough credit as far as their ability to learn when we mainly "teach to the holidays". Frankly, I think it is just an easy out for faculty as teaching from holiday to holiday is easier than developing a more meaningful curriculum.

    I strongly believe that we need to develop non-holiday based curricula so that our religious schools have more personal meaning and so that here is no "lull" because the string of holidays ends.

    I'd be curious to hear your thoughts.

    Jerry Tatar

    marc rosenstein said:

    Good point about holiday curriculum, and I agree in principle, especially as you move to the upper grades; but I think in American Jewish supplementary education, if you are only meeting a few hours a week, and if the main potential active connection between the students and the tradition is holiday observance, then the school sort of gets forced into focusing on the holidays - if the kid can't say the four questions or lead his family in the Chanukah blessings, then the school has failed.

    In day schools, where there is more time available, the holidays are a much smaller proportion of the instructional time. But in all schools (including here), the succession of special days in the spring make it hard to focus on anything else even if you don't spend a lot of time teaching the holiday - just because of days off and special programs etc., that are unavoidable.

    Larry Kaufman said:

    "In day schools, where there is more time available, the holidays are a much smaller proportion of the instructional time."

    There's another reason that the holidays can take up less time in day schools -- parents who send their kids to day schools are much more likely than the rank-and-file to be reinforcing the ritual and the relevance of the holidays in the home. You don't have to spend as much time teaching Sukkot or Pesach to a kid who is living Sukkot and Pesach.

    BZ said:

    There's another reason that the holidays can take up less time in day schools -- parents who send their kids to day schools are much more likely than the rank-and-file to be reinforcing the ritual and the relevance of the holidays in the home. You don't have to spend as much time teaching Sukkot or Pesach to a kid who is living Sukkot and Pesach.

    I'd like to see a Hebrew school designed for kids who are "living Sukkot and Pesach" (or, if no one else does by the time I have kids the right age, start one). One argument against Hebrew school (as opposed to day school) is that there's not enough time to teach a solid Jewish education, but I think a lot more could be accomplished in the same amount of time if the Hebrew school only taught things that kids couldn't already get at home. (I realize that this wouldn't be for everyone. But it would be for some people.)

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