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    Galilee Diary: Peace talk III - Living with history
    June 9, 2009
    Israel (14 comments)

    by Marc Rosenstein
    (Originally published in
    Ten Minutes of Torah and Galilee Diary)

    tmt-bug.jpgWho is the mightiest of the mighty? ... Some say: he who is able to turn his enemy into a friend.

    -Avot d'Rabbi Nathan version A chapter 23

    One of the obstacles to the creation of a political future shared by Jews and Arabs in Israel, as discussed in the last entry, is perhaps the fact that we don't share an understanding of the past. And the fact that the story told by the Other casts doubt on the truth of the story we tell about ourselves consistently makes us so angry that we can't continue the conversation.

    We know: We once lived in this land and ruled it as a sovereign kingdom, in which Judaism was the state religion and worship centered in the Temple in the capital city, Jerusalem. Refusing to acquiesce in foreign conquest, first by the Babylonians and later by the Romans, we rebelled; those rebellions were put down with violence, our sovereignty was lost, and most of the people were forced (by the conquerors or by conditions resulting from the conquest) to leave. For two millennia we lived as an often persecuted minority, remembering from generation to generation our "good old days" and longing for a return to the land and restoration of our sovereignty. Modernization did not improve our lot in Europe, and from the beginning of the 20 th century we began to try to return and reclaim our land and re-establish our state. The Holocaust made clear our vulnerability without a state. The world accepted our claim, and the United Nations voted to allow us to establish a state in a portion of our historical domain. The Arabs who had moved in in our absence rejected our claim and the UN decision, and did whatever they could to thwart our efforts, up to and including war. Thus, the only way we could in fact attain - and maintain - sovereignty was through force of arms.

    The Arabs know: While the Jews may (or may not, depending on your acceptance of the Bible as history) have once had a sovereign state here, they left of their own accord, while we continued to live here, a life style and a culture rooted in the soil, generation after generation. The Jews who began to immigrate at the turn of the 20 th century did so in the context of European colonialism, believing it was their right to take over the lands of the non-European world for their own benefit. The Jews forced us off our land, having bought the land from absentee landowners. They introduced a foreign culture and made it clear that they wished to create a European-style state run by them. They claimed that the Holocaust somehow gave them the right to claim this land, but we were not responsible for their troubles in Europe and refused to see why they should be compensated at our expense. The world, dominated by Europeans, rejected our right of self determination in our ancestral land, leaving us no option except violence.

    This zero sum game is self-perpetuating, for if either side grants any credit to the story of the other side, it gives up its status as helpless, persecuted victim and maybe even the moral justification of its claim to full ownership of the land. A variation on this game is for the Palestinians to insist that the Jews are a religion, not a nationality, thus having no claim to a state; to which the Jews respond that the Palestinians are not an authentic nationality but a 20th century invention, created as a tool against the Jewish state.

    There can be no conversation (that is not just simultaneous screaming) until each side is prepared to step up and say, "I admit that to some extent, at least, I am responsible, I perhaps could and should have behaved differently, the situation is more complicated than the story I have kept telling." Of course, why should I say that until I hear the other side say it? Well, maybe that's the only way out. Or maybe that will just lead nowhere - which is, it seems, where we are already.

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    Vikki Spritz said:

    As always, I appreciate the thoughtfulness of Marc Rosenstein's essays. He is able to look critically inward as well as at the Other. Thank you for reminding me that there is a wider range of opinions in Israel than we generally get here in the U.S.

    Steven Evans said:

    In my opinion, your most powerful piece of this section in the history of the "10 Minutes of Torah" series.

    Thank you!

    Mark said:

    'There can be no conversation (that is not just simultaneous screaming) until each side is prepared to step up and say, "I admit that to some extent, at least, I am responsible, I perhaps could and should have behaved differently, the situation is more complicated than the story I have kept telling." Of course, why should I say that until I hear the other side say it? '
    This is what our President Barack Obama is saying.
    We must move beyond dwelling in the past to constuctive approaches to the future peace.

    Lisa said:

    Peace can never be attained if each generation is taught hate and entitlement. Education is going to be the only way to change minds. About 5 years ago a friend of mine, who lived in Germany, unexpectedly died. He had been asking my family to visit him for over a decade, but we had no desire to visit a land that had been so horrific to Jews, the attitude that my parents had taught me. Once there, we were embraced, accepted, and felt genuine remorse at what a past generation had done. This, was mainly done, because the laws of Germany along with their educational system had changed their attitudes. Only when compromise instead of hate, inclusion instead of exclusion, and acceptance instead of rejection is taught, will this problem ever move towards resolution.

    Art Bernstein said:

    I have been an enthusiastic follower of Marc Rosenstein's series of Galilee Diary essays from way back -- this essay is the climax.

    The Zionist Story of the reestablishment of the State of Israel no longer--and not since at least the Lebanon War--resonates with the non-Jewish world. The pro-Zionist argument has always had vulnerable weaknesses: are the Jews of today really direct historical and biological descendants of the Jews of Second Temple times? if being Jewish in Israel is recognized as being both a religious and nationality identification, how is this understood by and inline with the self-identification of American Jews?

    Zionism needs to reconstruct and retell its Story to the whole world--Jewish and non-Jewish alike.

    William Berkson said:

    This is completely right, but what can break through the total focus on blaming the other side, which characterizes the Israeli Right, and it seems most of Arab sentiment.

    During the Gaza war--admittedly not the best time--I tried talking with a Lubovicher and several Shiites on line about this. Here is my report at RJ.org:

    http://blogs.rj.org/reform/2009/02/the-lubovicher-and-the-shiite.html

    As you will, see the my effort was a complete flop in getting either side to look internally at all.

    The key problem is this thinking: Someone here is the good guy, and someone the bad guy. Which one is the bad guy?

    Of course rationality starts with recognition that there are rights and wrongs on both sides. But it doesn't even seem to start. Frankly my suspicion is that the US, as an outsider, is the only one who can perhaps force a little more rationality and compromise.

    Marian said:

    You summarize quite succinctly what I try to get over to friends who see the Middle East problem as solely a case of European colonialism. I am constantly reminding them that all Jews are not European and that there was always a Jewish presence in Israel.

    At the same time I cringe when I hear fellow Jews suggest that all Arabs be kicked out of Israel.

    John D. Winston said:

    Thank you for this worthwhile article. It is a lot more realistic than most of what you get from the "pro Israel" community.

    Carl said:

    It would take a great deal of courage to accomplish that.
    The courage of Menachem Began, Anwar Sadat and a "NEW" Jimmy Carter stand in.
    I believe..!

    Norman Sider said:

    I suggest that the problem is far more complex than "each side" having mutually exclusive narratives and claims and resisting being able to listen to the other's. In fact, there are more than two sides because within Israeli and Palestinian societies are multiple factions, not all of whom embrace the "we're 100% right and you're 100% wrong" positions. The problem is that within Israeli society the maximalists ( regardless of which party has had a majority in the Knesset) have had veto power over settlement policies and in territories controlled by the Palestinians those with the guns have prevented any arrangement which would allow a reasonable accommodation with Israel. Until both Israel and the Palestinians resolve their respective internal conflicts peace is likely to remain elusive.

    Harold V. Clumeck said:

    To Marian, who said that your friends regard the Israeli-Palestinian conflict as "solely" due to "European colonialism" -- you might suggest to them to read "A Tale of Love & Darkness" by Amos Oz (who was instrumental in founding the Israeli Peace Now movement). It provides readers with a perspective not derived from the media. Good luck!

    Carol Martin said:

    The first step in not repeating the same narratives over and over is to stop repeating them. The Holocaust is an important culminating justification for the establishment of the state of Israel but overemphasizing it overshadows the longer historical trajectory of the persecution of Jewish people. We need to know the complex and diverse history of Jewish people--our delimited rights, our ghettoization, our development of international banking, the pogroms against us, the invention of blood libels, and being forbidden to labor in European and Arab countries to understand the importance of a Jewish state in a context that stretches back well before the twentieth century.

    Garry Schmidt said:

    Thank you, Mark, for the succinct summaries of the two competing narratives that seem to dominate much of the political rhetoric. On a recent study trip to Israel/Palestine I was happy to learn about other stories and efforts in "the Land", by Jewish and Palestinian people alike, that are emphasizing a "peace based on justice and integrity". Distrust and fear by both sides will only lead to domination by the powerful and radicalization of the powerless. Peace and security for Israel will only be achieved when these movements in middle are heard above the "screaming" competing narratives which are based on archaic history.

    Sally Sanders said:

    It is impossible to have a solutiion until the compromising nations acknowledge the existance of the Jewish people and Israel. We must always remember "Never Again".

    Nations realize Israel's strength, inteligence, spirit and determination and I believe this is what causes fear among other nations.

    Who else could have created the Nation of Israel as it is today.

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