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    Michael Jackson and the Jews
    June 29, 2009
    By Rabbi Eric Yoffie (24 comments)

    by Rabbi Eric Yoffie

    jackson_boteach-sm.jpgMichael Jackson was a musician of immense talent and arguably the greatest Pop singer of our era. He reinvented pop music and produced the world's bestselling album. He was also a man of stupendous wealth who, by his own admission, used his celebrity to entice children to visit his estate and share a bed with him. While he was never convicted of a crime, his trial for child abuse and its aftermath revealed a pattern of utterly reprehensible conduct toward his own children and the children of others entrusted to his care.

    In our celebrity-obsessed age, it is perhaps not surprising that we were never willing to judge Michael Jackson by the standards that we use to judge everyone else. Jackson's fans defended him ferociously, seeing him as a symbol of innocence and insisting that he was more victim than victimizer. Is it really necessary, however, now that he is dead, for those who speak in the name of the Jewish community to be joining in the adulation and offering excuses for his actions?

    Jackson's relations with the Jewish community were, to say the least, complicated. Some have charged that he was an anti-Semite, but this is unclear. He was, however, a clever marketer and an opportunist who used anti-Jewish comments to his own advantage. His 1995 release "They Don't Care About Us" included the line: "Jew me, sue me, everybody do me." The words caused a storm of protest, as everyone knew that they would. Jackson first responded with a rambling explanation arguing that the lyrics did not mean what they plainly said. Eventually he offered an apology, to the applause of a grateful Jewish establishment. Over the course of the controversy, the incident generated immense publicity and additional sales. This pattern was to repeat itself a number of times.

    Following Jackson's death, the Jewish press and the Jewish blogosphere were filled with proud stories of Jewish writers and public figures who had met Jackson, been to synagogue with him, discussed Jewish music with him, and introduced their children to him. It was even claimed that his second wife and two of his children were Jewish. One blogger, known for his insightful and sober commentary, compared Jackson to the Biblical figure of Joseph.

    The most widely distributed article by far from a Jewish source was the one written by Shmuley Boteach, an Orthodox rabbi and friend of Jackson, for the Jerusalem Post. Boteach's comments were also featured on a number of TV entertainment shows. The Post article was painful to read, and for a rabbi, inexcusable. Boteach congratulates himself for accompanying Jackson to Shabbat dinners and for introducing him to Elie Wiesel. Boteach's Jackson, far more sinned against than sinning, had no responsibility for his actions. Everything that he did is attributable to the failures of those in his inner circle. Jackson's attacks on Jews are not mentioned. Jackson's treatment of his own children - when they appeared in public he shrouded them in masks or veils, and he dangled one child over a balcony - is not mentioned. Most important, his treatment of other people's children - those who were lured to his home and made to sleep in his bed - is not mentioned; and needless to say, treating other's children in this way is utterly forbidden by any reading of Jewish law and tradition.

    To Boteach, Jackson is a flawed but sympathetic individual, a tragic figure characterized by "nobility of spirit." No, he is not. There is not a Jewish school in North America that would teach the lessons of Jackson's life to Jewish children in the way that Rabbi Boteach sees them. True, Jackson was a great musician and the pain of his death is felt by millions; but at a time like this, it would have been far better for Rabbi Boteach and others in our community to just remain silent.

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    Anonymous said:

    Thanks for saying this -- I wondered what had happened to the Michael Jackson I read about or saw on TV... but one hates to kick the dead, unless it becomes necessary.

    Dan said:

    Are you speaking as an individual, or as President of the URJ?
    For if the latter, you really should take your own advice and remain silent.

    First, imho, there is no reason for the URJ to be voicing an opinion on this.

    Second, if if you feel there is, continuing the dialogue serves a counter-purpose to what you say Rabbi Boteach did.

    anonymous said:


    Are you speaking on behalf of the entire Reform Jewish movement?

    I am in disbelief that the President of the URJ would spend time writing a article of this nature, especially when his Union is in the midst of a crisis.

    Deb said:

    Thank you. As I've said elsewhere, by the time Jackson's anti-Semetic comments were publicized, I didn't care because he was irrelevant and crazy. However, I do think that people who continue to defend him despite those statements and his behavior towards children are without defense.

    Dan, anonymous, why should we be silent?

    Larry Kaufman said:

    Thank you, Rabbi Yoffie, for the reminder that the celebrity was a pervert and a freak.

    In response to Dan and to lower-case anonymous, I would hope that the president of the Union for Reform Judaism would use his pulpit to remind the Reform movement and the general community that the message of Reform Judaism incorporates ethics and morality -- and we need not revere the memory of one who flouted them so publicly.

    This becomes particularly important if your headline-grabbing colleague is trying to make excuses for his creepy friend. I haven't read the article in the Jerusalem Post, but I wonder if Rabbi (?) Boteach wants to use Jackson as an exemplar of kosher sex.

    Angie said:

    I do think that it needs to be clear if the Rabbi is speaking in his capacity as URJ President or as part of the citizenry. Being the President of URJ commands an audience for and adds more weight to any of his writings. While I understand and commend the passion conveyed in the Rabbi's writing, if he is speaking on the behalf of Reform Jews, I would have hoped for a more well-reasoned commentary.

    The anti-Semitic statements are really a matter of record, we heard them, we were offended by them. Statements like those of Mr. Jackson's show a supreme lack of sensitivity and of understanding of the Jewish people. He apologized and it is up to one's own conscience as to whether or not to accept it.

    Regarding his alledged conduct with Children: We should not convict someone in the "court of the public opinion." Especailly with evidence from the press. In America, we are innocent until proven guilty. He was found not guilty, therefore he is innocent in the eyes of the law. To set that aside, I belive sets a dangerous precedent and is a very double-edged sword.

    As for the Rabbi’s opinion of the way Mr. Jackson treated his own children citing “when they appeared in public he shrouded them in masks or veils.” I can only posit this - According to Mr. Jackson, he did this to protect their identity, and that because of that the children could attend regular schools and enjoy some measure of freedom that comes with anonymity. If that is true, is that really a bad thing?

    Dan said:

    Personally I could care less about MJ.
    But, I do think the head of the URJ has much more serious things to be discussing than what Shmuley Boteach says in the Jerusalem Post.

    Dan said:

    To Larry's comment about Rabbi (?) ---

    I had a huge problem when Israel's former, and now disgraced, President refused to acknowledge Eric as a Rabbi.

    Rabbi Boteach, regardless of his support of MJ - or any other issue, deserves the same.

    Larry Kaufman said:

    Dan's analogy is interesting. The point seems to be that the president shouldn't have questioned Rabbi Yoffie's smicha, and thus that I shouldn't have questioned Rabbi Boteach's.

    I don't doubt that both men received valid smichot, and were told, You shall truly teach, you shall truly judge. The president, whose position is supposed to place him outside of politics, made a political judgment, in not accepting the validity of the Reform movement, and thus of its right to confer the title of rabbi. .

    Rabbi Boteach, whose position is supposed to qualify him to teach and make judgments about Torah, made a judgment that I find inconsistent with the teachings of Judaism. It may be that I should have honored his title even if I don't honor his teaching.

    Meanwhile, since we don't know who Dan is, I can't judge whether it is appropriate for him to call the president of the Union by his first name, rather than according him his title of Rabbi.

    If I may quote from another religious figure, to whom some give the title Rabbi, let him who is without sin cast the first stone.


    Cantor Penny Kessler said:

    Kol ha-kavod to Rabbi Yoffie for his insightful commentary.

    To those who complain that Rabbi Yoffie should have more important things to worry about, I suggest that - given the adulation of Michael Jackson since his death, the intimation in some quarters that he was the epitome of racial victimization and the massive amount of time and space and verbiage given him (certainly compared to the nightmare in Iran, where there are indeed suffering victims) - this is precisely where a rabbi's attention should be placed.

    If some people can take the time to complain about Richard Nixon's vile anti-Semitic and racist bigotry as recently aired in tapes and documents, surely we can take the time to speak some truth about someone who has been declared a cultural "icon."

    Ellen said:

    If not for the press deluge over the past 3 decades, I probably wouldn't even know who Michael Jackson is -- he is from a segment of pop culture to which I am rarely exposed.

    But of course I do know who Michael Jackson is and what he has been accused of. I found many of his antics distasteful, as is my right. If he was anti-semitic (or anti-gay or anti-hispanic or bigoted in any other way), that would be similarly distasteful.

    The First Amendment to the United States Constitution protects your right to voice your opinions. But with all due respect, Rabbi Yoffie, the 5th, 6th and 14th amendments to that same Constitution embody a "presumption of innocence." While I am not a scholar, I believe this is consistent with Jewish law, where every person who cannot be proven by bais din to be a rasha (evil person) is granted by the Torah
    הנחה של תמימות (assumption of innocence).

    I agree with Angie's comment and expound on it: if the prosecution failed to bear its burden of proving that Mr. Jackson was guilty beyond a reasonable doubt, then it is not for any one of us to draw conclusions or judge him to be otherwise "guilty."

    I am not a Michael Jackson fan. But I am a huge fan of Constitutional rights. All of them.

    Dan said:

    Larry, you're 100% correct.

    Having personally known Rabbi Yoffie since he was a student at HUC, and addressing him (and many other of our movement's leaders) in person by his first name for over 4o years, informality is an easy trap to fall into. Not the same as non-respect.

    Two further comments; your Rabbi (?) did not appear in a positive vein.

    And as to the former President of Israel, if you listened to what he said at the time, it was not a political judgment. It was religious, ill-thought out and ill-timed. His were strongly held views from long before he entered the political world. Most other Israeli political leaders show kavod in public meetings with Diaspora Rabbis. To my knowledge, no President or Prime Minister of Israel, before or since this incident, has not publicly acknowledged the title of Rabbi to any Diaspora Rabbi of any movement.

    William Berkson said:

    I have read the column of Rabbi Boteach, and am afraid that Rabbi Yoffie's account of it is unfair.

    Nowhere does Rabbi Boteach say, as Rabbi Yoffie claims, that Jackson had "no responsibility for his actions." On the contrary, Rabbi Boteach in several places in the column does say that Jackson failed to do what he should have done, and that others failed to "save him from himself." That phrase clearly indicates, as is indeed fundamental in Jewish tradition, that like all human beings Jackson was ultimately responsible his own sins, and his own good deeds.

    It is true that Rabbi Boteach does not in this essay excoriate Jackson for his more egregious actions. But after all, this was in the immediate aftermath of Jackson's death, when a gentler approach is arguably more appropriate.

    I believe I remember Rabbi Boteach on television, while Jackson was alive, unequivocally condemning Jackson's bringing young boys into his bed.

    In contrast to Rabbi Boteach, Dr. Deepak Chopra, speaking on "Anderson Cooper 360" explicitly said that he did not blame Jackson for anything, and that all the bad things were due to hangers on. This to me is indeed outrageous, and contrary to Jewish tradition, but it is not Rabbi Boteach who said it.

    Unlike Elvis, who was under the thumb of one person, "Colonel" Parker, Jackson was constantly firing those who worked for him, so there was a continually churning cast of characters in his entourage. So it was clearly Jackson who as calling the shots, and Dr. Chopra is way out of line however you look at it.

    Rabbi Akiva said that God judges us according to "the preponderance of deeds"--weighing good against bad deeds. So if we feel called upon to judge a person after death, it seems to me we could be a bit more charitable than Rabbi Yoffie, and mention some of the person's good deeds, along with the bad.

    Bob said:

    "[B]ut at a time like this, it would have been far better for Rabbi Boteach and others in our community to just remain silent."

    Rabbi Eric Yoffie
    June 29, 2009

    Lilah said:

    I'd like to ask everyone here if they've started a Heal The World foundation lately. Just wondering. How many of you have donated half your earnings to victims of famine and war?

    ...I understand that Michael was not perfect, but I feel that he tried to do a lot of good for the world and had pure loving intentions for all, Jews, Arabs, everyone. I've watched a lot of interviews of his and know the lyrics to many of his songs. I understand the background on the con artists who took advantage of his kindness for their own personal gain, ruining the highly sensitive Michael in the process.

    I have a feeling that Michael is not against Jews but is against Zionism. I wish he would have been more sensitive to the impact that those words would have on innocent Jews who have nothing to do with the substantially less innocent Jews who are in power right now (who are making us all look bad and encouraging people to use those words in frustration). Perhaps we should take a look at who is really making us look bad; Michael Jackson, or the people who inspired him to use those words in the first place?

    I watched that song on Youtube. I love the song and the video very much. I noticed how he took those two words out of the video. I've accepted that mistake and apology. I think it's useless to bash him for it.

    I'm choosing to celebrate the positive things he stood for like love, cherishing children as society's future, and world peace. His "Heal The World" performance at the Superbowl was the most personally inspiring thing I've ever seen. I don't know anyone else who has ever made a football stadium stand up and cheer for World Peace.

    Josh said:

    It is astounding and extremely disappointing that Rabbi Eric Yoffie would use his position and pulpit as URJ President to comment on Michael Jackson's passing. I expect him to make better use of his time than writing this trivial nonsense of a blog on MJ.

    Aryeh Lev said:

    For some reason unfathomable to me, but appareenty clear to others, the death of Michael Jackson has created a media frenzy. I would find it disturbing indeed if the president of the URJ were not asserting his moral voice on issues of concern to the society in which we live. To repeat, I don't understand why this is an issue of concern, but since it clearly is, Rabbi Yoffie, right on!

    Nata said:

    If the songs of Michael Jackson is somehow is in the center of the discussion here, let's take a look at the lyrics that brought up all this controversy.

    There are 'controversial' lyrics:

    "Beat me, hate me
    You can never break me
    Will me, thrill me
    You can never kill me
    Jew me, sue me
    Everybody do me
    Kick me, kike me
    Don't you black or white me"

    The author of the song is actually talking from the position of the person who was abused, "kicked", "Kiked" - the song is actually supports people who were victims, not they enemies. Nothing here is showing the author's negative view of the Jews or Asians or Black or White people or anybody else in this matter. The author is actually looking from the position of the person who is here "to be killed, jewed, sued"... Where would people see anything that could say opposite I do not understand.
    May be the word 'kike' is pretty painful for the Jew community, due to the historical reasons and it could explain they displeasure with the song. But this is an only rational explanation I see for any 'controversy'.

    Aryeh Lev said:

    Regardless of context, I shudder to think of the virulent reaction that would likely have ensued had a Jew used comparable demeaning terminology to make even a sympathetic point about African-Americans.

    We've seen efforts to have Huckleberry Finn removed from library shelves because of its use, in another time, of the "N-word."

    I will concede there was probably no political or social animus behind Jackson's gutter anti-Semitism -- nor do I attribute any racial explanation to the accusations of deviant behavior for which he is so well remembered.

    Nata's special pleading is at best anive.

    Emily said:

    I always took that quote, "Jew me, sue me, everybody do me", to mean “persecute me, sue me, everybody do me”, because the Jews were persecuted (hope I am making sense). I never took it to be a bad thing, but again. I am not Jewish.

    Eleanor said:

    As a lawyer, I am continually irritated by the misuse of the concept "presumption of innocence." All it means is that the prosecution bears the burden of proving the case against the accused beyond a reasonable doubt; if it fails to meet that high standard, the accused is acquitted. It does NOT mean everyone must close their eyes to the obvious and deny the strong probability that the charge against the accused was well-founded in truth.
    I have always pitied MJ because I believe he was given medications as a child that kept him from maturing normally. May he rest in peace.

    keepitreal said:

    I always thought Michael's comments "Jew Me Sue Me" were directed at Evan Chandler who was the father of the boy whom accused Michael of molestation. This father sued Michael. It was the civil lawsuit that he filed that resulted in the settlement. But Evan Chandler was Jewish.

    Yaakov said:

    I was disappointed to read Rabbi Yoffie's negative portrayal of Michael Jackson. Frankly, many artists and other creative individuals are plagued by inner demons that paradoxically enable them to produce amazing works of artistic expression. No where in Rabbi Yoffie's post is there any mention of the whippings, beatings and sexual trauma visited upon Mr. Jackson by his father--the abhorrent Joe Jackson. Let's admit that Michael suffered pain and indignities at the hands of his father. His mother was too scared to speak up. The result--someone with body dysmorphic disorder, a closeted sexual identity, and a lot of self hatred. Let's try not to be so judgemental Rabbi.

    Dov Bar said:

    Rabbi Yoffie, I have become increasingly disappointed in your "lashon harah" of people. I was taught that if what one says puts someone in a negative light, then that is evil tongue, for if I should meet that person in the future, I would immediately think badly of them.

    The article you wrote about Madonna and Kaballah was disparaging, and evil tongue. Your recent article about the ultra-orthodox. And now this article about Michael Jackson. I thought the head of the URJ who's a rabbi would offer more "rabbinical" insights in how to be a better Jew in this world instead of putting other people down in name or by group.

    This recent article about MJ and collective guilt has a "dig" in the first sentence of the 2nd paragraph, "Notably, many of these lawbreakers are "haredim" - ultra-Orthodox Jews. Should we start naming reform rabbis who are not who they say they are?

    I have recently dropped my membership to my reform synagogue for a host of reasons but primarily because there is a loss of integrity in this institution at all levels, starting at the top, and I am no longer receiving my inspiration for tikkun olam from the reform movement. As someone earlier said, let's try not to be so judgemental Rabbi.

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