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    Remembering Capt. Benjamin Sklaver
    October 8, 2009
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    Sklaver.jpgRabbi Harold L. Robinson, Rear Admiral CHC USN Ret, is the Director of JWB Jewish Chaplains Council.

    The world, and specifically the community of Reform Judaism, lost a very special neshama with the death by enemy action in Afghanistan of Captain Benjamin Sklaver, US Army, 32, of Hamden, Conn.

    Ben was a product of Mishkan Israel of Hamden, Vice President of NFTY-NE in 1994-95 and was a graduate of both Tufts and the Fletcher School of Law and Diplomacy at Tufts.

    While employed at the Centers for Disease Control, he joined the Army Reserve in 2003 as a civil affairs expert and deployed to the Horn of Africa where he was touched by the high rates of child mortality linked to dirty drinking water. After his demobilization and return to civilian life, Ben founded ClearWater Initiative, an organization based in New Haven that sought to provide potable water in underdeveloped Ugandan villages. In northern Uganda, Ben was known as "Moses Ben." According to its Web site, ClearWater Initiative has constructed wells for more than 6,500 people since 2007.

    Ben moved back to New England to be near his fiancée but was again mobilized even though his Army Reserve commitment was nearly complete. He was still on active duty since the "stop loss" rules do not allow for release of a solder during a period of mobilization.

    As a NFTY friend of my son (now our colleague) Yair and daughter Dori, Ben had been a guest in our home. He was kind, humble, tall, blonde, athletic, clever and a committed Jew. He was an immense credit to his family, our movement, our people and our country a very special and gutina neshama.

    Yihi zecher tsadeek Livracha. Moadeem lisimcha.


    Photo from the Connecticut Jewish Ledger.

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    M. B. said:

    Our prayers go out to the family of Capt. Sklaver, a man who lived and died in the finest tradition of American Jews. People like that make the world a better place.

    Jonathan "J.C." Cohen said:

    In the mid 1990's, Ben spent a couple of summers at the URJ Henry S. Jacobs Camp. Many of our alumni have been moved by news of his death. As he is fondly remembered in the Northeast, so too is he fondly remembered in the Deep South.

    rene katersky said:

    Our thoughts and prayers are with the Sklaver family...well known to the Katersky clan through our children. Annie, may your most precious memories help to sustain you and your family as you navigate these most difficult times ahead.
    Although I did not know Ben, I am moved to have read in the CT Jewish newspaper about what an extraordinary human being he was and a blessing to all he served.

    Rene Katersky

    MajGen Stan Newman, USAF (Ret) said:

    Our Nation and the entire Jewish Community of the United States has suffered a great loss. Captain Sklaver was not only an "Officer and Gentleman" in the best traditions of our Armed Services but was truly a "MENSCH" in every sense of that word.
    May his family find solace and comfort in that thought and may he rest in peace.

    Regretfully, Stan Newman

    Iris Burkat said:

    I grew up summers at Beach Park in Clinton with Ben's father, uncles and grand parents. Although I didn't know Ben, but having known the family, I am not surprised that they produced such a wonderful young man. Here's hoping that he will be as an inspiration to all those who are trying to make the world a better place - and a deterrent to those who are trying to do the opposite. My condolences to the whole Sklaver family.

    1LT Geoff Terman said:

    As a Jewish Officer currently serving in the Kunar Province of Afghanistan this loss genuinely hurts. My heart goes out to his family and friends....I never worked directly with Ben although we are all connected... he obviously accomplished more than most in both his civilian and military life, that will not be forgotten. I would like to extend my sincerest condolences to the Sklavers and his fiancee, very sorry for your tremendous loss.
    Ha-Makom y'nachem et'chem b'toch sha'ar aveilei Tzion v'Yerushalayim
    1LT Geoff Terman

    elaine burns dohan said:

    Dear Gary and Laura,

    Vi and Joe and Zelma and Archie were a big part of my childhood - the happiest part. I remember you both as little kids. Laura, I remember you even before you were born. Gary, you loved my mother's brownies.

    With the help of grandparents like those, it is no wonder that you raised such a remarkable son. I was so sorry to hear of your terrible loss. Ben is really a loss to all of us.

    Hopefully, knowing that friends from everywhere are thinking of you and grieving with you will be of some comfort.

    Sincerest sympathy,
    Elaine

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