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    Rituals for Thanksgiving
    November 19, 2009
    Holidays | Jewish Living | Youth and Family Life (0 comments)

    by Rabbi Phyllis Sommer
    (Originally published in
    Ima on (and off) the Bima)

    It's hard to believe that the holiday of Thanksgiving is nearly upon us. Just one more week!

    Thanksgiving is such a wonderful American holiday. It's simple - say thank you for the blessings in life and share a meal with those you love.

    But often, the meal takes over, stress of family and needing a "picture perfect" celebration cause a little fraying at the edges. Creating an atmosphere of gratitude can be tricky when you're just trying to keep your 3-year-old from pulling the tablecloth off the table, don't you think?

    I have created 3 different Thanksgiving services, based loosely on the idea of the Passover seder. After all, one good holiday centered around the table deserves another, doesn't it?

    Feel free to read all three and pick and choose from within them! Your family might be somewhere between the longer edition and the quick version.

    The first, a Thanksgiving Seder, is the longest of the three - suitable for strong attention spans.
    Thanksgiving Seder

    The second, a Thanksgiving Seder for Families with Young Children, is a quick version, meant to be fun and light for the preschool and elementary school set.
    Thanksgiving Seder for Families with Small Children

    And finally, an ecumenical version. What do I mean by that? It talks about God but it's not particularistic, i.e. not really very Jewish. (I know that some of you loyal readers aren't Jewish or share your table with people of many faiths and still might enjoy this concept!)

    Ecumenical Thanksgiving Service for Families

    All three include ideas for usage and suggestions for incorporating your own cultural and ethnic heritage. I hope you like it and I hope you let me know if you use it.

    May your celebration be full and enriching!
    Happy Thanksgiving!

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